THE IMPACT OF FRONT PORCH DESIGN

A covered front porch is considered a major asset to a home – one that many buyers would be willing to pay more for. The indoor/outdoor and public/private qualities that a front porch provides can add to the overall enjoyment of a home.

front porch design ideas

 

The detailing of a porch can also greatly impact the look of a home’s exterior. The combination of the porch’s roof-line, rails, and columns are of great importance; And determining the right proportions and styles of each of these elements can be tricky, especially if you are starting from scratch.

If you have an older home that has since lost it’s porch, you may simply need to see some historical photographs of similar homes to get a good grasp of what the proper detailing should look like. You can also take cues from these historic examples if you are designing a new home – but you may have more leeway on what might be deemed appropriate. You may need to play with a few different ideas before you land on the styling you prefer.

 

VISUAL EXAMPLES OF FRONT PORCH DESIGN

I will use the porch of our home, Arrow Hill Cottage, as an example of how a front porch can greatly impact the look of a home’s exterior.

Obviously, I have been going more for a ‘cottage’ look while designing the exterior – But the truth of the matter is that our home is basically a simple rectangular shape. It’s the porch that helps it come to life.

simple front porch design

 

Because our porch is only 14″ off of grade, we will not be required to install a railing around it. Instead we will incorporate a large planter box to help define the space. I can’t wait for my husband to build it for me (wink, wink). The columns are doubled up and positioned on stone bases that match the height of the window sill.

I would like to show you some other examples of what the house might look like with different porch detailing. First, lets take a look at this same house WITHOUT it’s porch.

Home design without a front porch

 

THAT’S A VISUAL SHOCK!

Insert all of the sad emoji’s here. Can you see how much character was lost with the elimination of the porch? The entire facade looks flat and uninviting. The entryway is not defined and the windows seem to have little balance. I think it’s clear that this house needs it’s porch!

 

The use of thinner columns and the elimination of the stone bases would have created a look that has a bit more of a Colonial styling. This set up might have looked more appropriate with a railing. For us, it wasn’t the right fit.

 

simple home with front porch

 

 

A thicker column profile atop brick bases might have given the house more of a Craftsman/Bungalow look. I personally love craftsman detailing; But I felt that with the steep pitch of the roof, they wouldn’t complement the house correctly either.

front porch with brick columns

 

Color can also play a role. Stained brown columns may have given the house more of a Modern Farmhouse vibe. Lovely, but not what we were going for.

farmhouse style front porch

 

All of these options are unique and none would be considered ‘wrong’ in this situation. Our choice came down to a matter of a styling preference.

 

If you have a home that could benefit from a front porch, but aren’t sure what it might look like – please contact me about doing a MAKEOVER TAKEOVER for you! I would be happy to offer up some options that could really make your house shine!

 

REFINISHED DINING CHAIRS IN 6 EASY STEPS

I’m happy to report that another item from my PROJECT BUCKET LIST is well underway. The dining chairs have begun their transformation from brown to black! And I am loving them!

First, a quick recap on what my plans are for these chairs.

For our future dining space at Arrow Hill Cottage, we are hoping to create a unique harvest table – partially out of lumber harvested from large trees on the property. This will be a long and narrow table, with seating for ten people. We want to make sure that we always have room for guests to dine with us.

 

Our dining space will be directly off of the kitchen – in an area of about 9′-0″ x 14′-0″. Not a very large space by any means. And so, in order to include seating for ten people, I intentionally searched for chairs that had a small profile.

I found the perfect chairs at a local antique store. This set of  8 had been recently refinished with stain.

 

 

An additional 2 matching chairs were were found at a different antique store. These chairs were not in as good of shape, and were covered in quite a few layers of paint – some of which had already begun to peel off.

 

I’ve decided that with a stained wood dining table, and stained hardwood floors – our chairs will look best painted black. I started the transformation process with the two brown painted chairs.

Today I will share the 6 simple steps that I used to refinish the first two chairs. Hopefully this post can serve as a guide to anyone planning a similar project! 

 

STEP 1: REMOVE EXISTING PAINT LAYERS

These chairs were covered in many layers of paint. While you might be able to sand some furniture pieces down to the bare wood – that was not be possible with these chairs. A power sander would have changed the shape of the spindles. It also would not have been able to get into the small turned details.

 

Instead, I decided to use a stripping agent to remove the paint layers. I have had great results with  Citristrip Stripping Gel. It is powerful, but has a smell that isn’t overwhelming. Even still, you want to be sure to wear a face mask or respirator. Other items you will need for this step of the process is an inexpensive paintbrush, a small container to hold the gel, a scraping tool, a stiff scrub brush, a rag, and a bucket of warm soapy water (dish-washing soap works well).

Apply the gel liberally over all areas that need paint removed. Let it sit for approximately 30 minutes and you will notice the paint start to bubble and then turn white. At that time you can begin to scrape. You may want to experiment with different tools to find the right fit for your project. If using a metal scraper, be sure not to gouge into the wood with the sharp edge of the scraper.

In my experience, the paint will be stripped off one layer at a time. You will need to apply multiple applications of the gel to reach bare wood.

As the paint is coming off, I like to take a water/soap soaked rag and clean off the surface. This helps to get the more fine bits of paint that may be stuck between spindles, for example.

Repeat this process until you have reached the bare wood layer. At this point you will want to use your stiff brush to remove all extra debris.

Let the chair dry completely before beginning the next step.

 

STEP 2: SAND

As mentioned previously, it is not a good idea to use an electric sander on fine detailed pieces of furniture. Sanding by hand can be tedious, but it will yield the best results. Instead of using flat sandpaper, I prefer to use 3M sanding sponges. They don’t rip apart like traditional sandpaper sheets – and the beveled edges of the sponge work perfectly for the detailed sanding.

Sanding is pretty straightforward. Be checking to make sure the surfaces are feeling smooth and that the detailed areas are not still filled with paint.

 

STEP 3: CLEAN

Using a tack cloth, wipe all of the sanding dust off of the chair. Again, be sure to get into all of the detailed areas.

As a final cleaning measure, I like to dab a bit of mineral spirits onto a rag and wipe it over the wood that will be painted. It is a quick and easy task, but will get any last bit of gunk that may be left on the furniture piece.

 

STEP 4: PRIME

This step is the most often forgotten or eliminated, yet it is absolutely essential! The purpose of the primer is to give the paint the ideal surface to adhere to. Even if the paint you plan on using indicates that it is a paint + primer combo, add a coat of primer first. Wood that is primed before it is painted is much more durable and will hold up better than a piece that is covered only with paint.

Primer can be brushed on or sprayed. I personally love the ease and simplicity of spray paint. This Rust-Oleum flat black primer went on super smooth and in one coat. One can of primer was enough to cover both of the chairs I worked on. I set my chairs side by side on a set of saw-horses, which allowed me to get access to all parts of the chairs (including the underside) at one time.

 

Allow the primer to dry according to directions, then lightly sand with a fine grit sandpaper or sanding sponge and clean with a tack cloth before beginning the next step.

 

 

STEP 5: PAINT

Of course, this is when the real magic happens! Choose a color that suites your decor style. Again, I used a spray paint product – Rust-Oleum Black, in a Satin finish. I recommend a finish that is either satin, semi-gloss or gloss. A flat finish will showcase every imperfection your piece may have, and is generally not as durable.

Between each layer of paint, you should sand lightly with fine grit sandpaper and clean the dust off with a tack cloth to ensure that the surface is smooth.

 

STEP 6: SEAL

This final step is optional, but can be important – especially on furniture pieces that will be used on a daily basis. Sealing with a clear coat can give you a surface that more easy to wipe clean should the need arise. It also adds protection from nicks and dings.

If you choose not to add a sealer product, let the piece sit for a minimum of 30 days before use. This will cure the paint to it’s maximum potential. If you are sealing your piece, wait a minimum of 24 hours after the final coat of paint has dried.

I’ll admit that I have yet to complete this step on my chairs, but I will be adding the sealer. Heaven knows that dining chairs + kids = lots and lots of wiping clean!  I will be using a product similar to THIS to get the job done.

After applying the sealing coat, wait approximately 24-48 hours before using the piece.

 

Below are a few pictures of our newly refinished black chairs. They make my heart happy!

 

 

 

 

Two down and eight to go! I might work on one of the other items on my list first though, to give myself a little painting break.

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COTTAGE STYLE FALL HOME DECOR FINDS

Looking to decorate for the season? One of these Fall home decor items might just be the perfect accessory you are looking! Read on for all the source links!

Fall home decor sunflowers

 

It is nearly the official start of Fall – and it is being ushered in by a cooling in air temperature and the changing leaf colors. Personally, I welcome Fall with open arms. It is likely my favorite season of all. I just wish that it lasted longer and that it didn’t precede my least favorite season – Winter.

I also love Fall decorating. And thinking about decorating Arrow Hill Cottage for this season (next year) has me really excited! I did a little web shopping and found some great Fall home decor items that are perfectly suited for the cottage style!

 



 

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COTTAGE FALL DECOR FINDS

 

Fall home decor garland

This Burlap garland is so sweet with it’s colorful leaf pattern. It is simple, and a bit rustic. I could see it gracing a mantle throughout the Fall season, all the way through Thanksgiving.

 

 

Thanksgiving Fall art print

You can’t go wrong with simple artwork that features an adorable pumpkin! The watercolor technique adds just the right amount of visual texture.

 

 

Fall home decor door wreath

Welcome visitors with this plush harvest wreath. The colors are bright and bold, yet warm and inviting.

 

 

Fall home decor white pumpkins

More adorable white pumpkins! And gourds! These are artificial, but sure look realistic to me! An added bonus is that they will not rot. You can store them to re-use year after year.

 

Table runner fall home decor

A simple table runner is a staple home decor item. This neutral buffalo check pattern would not only work with Fall decor, but other seasons as well.

 

Fall seed garland decoration

This berry garland could really brighten up a room. Use it as a mantle decoration or string it around a banister for a fun accent.

 

candle fall home decor

Who doesn’t love a great smelling candle? Don’t feel like baking a pumpkin pie? Go ahead and fake it with this great scent!

 

Pillow home decor for Fall

Adding a themed pillow is one of the most simple decor moves you can make. This one is neutral, but has a cute Fall message.

 



 

I would be so happy to decorate with these awesome Fall home decor items! I might need to fill up the cart and put them in storage for next year!

 

PIN THESE FINDS FOR LATER!

Cottage Fall home decor ideas

 

burlap leaf garlandpumpkin art print

harvest wreath  |  white pumpkins & gourds

buffalo check runner  |   seed mantle garland

pumpkin soy candle  |   fall themed pillow

 

 

MORE POSTS ABOUT FALL HOME DECOR

You may want to check out these additional Fall decor posts from Arrow Hill Cottage!

 

Fall Decorating Ideas

Natural Fall Centerpieces

Free ‘Be Thankful’ Art Print

 

These Fall decorating ideas from around the web are also worth a read

 

 

 

 

 

HOME DESIGN PLOT TWIST!

Just two weeks ago I wrote about how our home design has evolved. I saw it as a bookend to the design – a way to finish off the chapter of floor plan configuration, and usher in the next phase of material selection.

And then, well… life has a funny way of sending you twists and turns when you least expect them! Today I will be writing about some major house changes that have happened – changes we didn’t even see coming!

 

home design changes

 

I have written in previous posts how we have had to make some sacrifices for our house design – based primarily on site constraints and financial limitations. Most of the things that haven’t ‘made the cut’ have been no big deal. I can live without an extra window, or the specific roofing material I was hoping to use.

There are other house elements though, that we have been bummed about not being able to include. One of the most difficult to accept was the idea that our main floor master bedroom would not have an attached bath. An attached bathroom was high on both of our wish lists, but ultimately we decided that we could live without it. After all, we have never had a true master suite in all the years we have been married.

 



 

But after working through the design of the upstairs bathroom that our kids will share, I started to think more about the bathroom situation for the rest of the house. That led me to begin feeling sad once again that I had not been able to work in the master bathroom we had been dreaming of.

 

And so, since our build is on hold until Spring of 2019, I figured I had some time to tinker with the home design & floor plan layout a bit more

 

Much to Craig’s annoyance. The blessing and the curse of loving home design is that it is probably never fully DONE. Craig is ready for things to be set in stone now. He may not understand that even after the house is built I will be tinkering, with paint colors and accessories! Ha!

During one of these mini design sessions, I realized something about the main level plan that I hadn’t before. It is essentially split into four quadrants: Living room, Kitchen/Dining, Bedroom, Utility. Maybe it is because the plan has evolved for such a long time and my eyes have been looking at it for so long, but I had never noticed that aspect before.

I also hadn’t really given much thought to the fact that the main floor was also divided in half in terms of the public and private spaces. The kitchen/living/dining half (public) and the master bedroom/bathroom/utility spaces (private).

home design plan layout

 

 

THE BIG IDEA

Then suddenly, I had an idea. I tried to swap the kitchen/dining quadrant with the master bedroom quadrant. Things suddenly started to make sense! By making this one simple swap the front half of the house would then be public, and the back private. But best of all? You guessed it. The master bedroom could finally have that attached bathroom! And just like that, we were headed in a new home design direction. PLOT TWIST!

custom home design

 

 



 

OTHER HOME DESIGN BONUSES

There were other fun surprises from this room swap.

I had never been super keen on the idea of having the kitchen immediately visible to people who visit. Visitors are likely to come through the front porch entryway.  Although I do try to keep my home tidy, the kitchen is ALWAYS the messiest. I think that’s normal. With the new layout, the kitchen is easily accessible – yet in a more visually private location. It will have a very similar cabinet setup as before. The biggest change is the movement of the dining table so that it in it’s own little space.

kitchen home design

 

When entering the front door now, the view will be of the wall of windows to the right and the fireplace directly in front. The beautiful wood french doors that we will bring with us from Craig’s grandparents homestead farmhouse will also be visible. This prominent living room location is the perfect spot for them! Previously they had been designed in as doors to our bedroom closet. The doors will likely be open most of the time. But it is nice to have the option to close off the laundry room/ mudroom space if we want.

living room home design

 

Also, we will be able to reuse the antique cabinets we own as room. They will act as dividers between the living and entry spaces. These cabinets have so much character, and Craig has already begun the process of refinishing them!

home design front entry idea

 

The improved sight lines are possibly my favorite aspect of this plan change. The openness will allow for more natural daylight to flood the common/ public spaces in the house. From this kitchen corner, we will have views to the west, east and south!

virtual home design open concept

 



 

NEW CHALLENGES

Of course, not all things magically fell into place. I did ended up pushing part of the house out two feet, to give the kitchen/dining more space. This added about 50 square feet to the overall plan, but also simplified the exterior shape of the house. We are hoping that the changes offset each other cost-wise.

I wonder what our contractor will think of all this – He will probably be as surprised as we were!

 

home design 3d floor plan

What do you think friends? Do you think this change is for the better like we do?

 

MY FAVORITE INSTAGRAM ACCOUNTS THAT FEATURE POPS OF COLOR IN DECOR

Today I am finishing a three part series on COLOR THEORY and how it relates to home decor and design preferences. The basic belief is that people choose to use certain colors because of their own personalities as well as the mood that they want their home to convey. And, just as there are multiple preferences on how to furnish a home – there are variations on how color is used as well.

I have found there to be three main ways that people utilize color in their homes:

 

ONE: Neutrals Prevail

TWO: Pops of Color

THREE: Color Explosion

 

I have already featured interiors that showcase the idea of  COLOR EXPLOSION , as well as those where NEUTRALS PREVAIL.

Today though, is devoted to those interiors that are a combination of both. A little bit of neutral, and a little bit of color. Maybe this is the camp that people fall into when they just can’t make up their minds. They love color – but don’t want to over-do it; and yet they feel that keeping everything neutral is a bit boring and plain for their liking.

I’m especially excited about today’s feature because it happens to be the category that I would put myself in. I love how a mostly neutrally decorated space seems to come to life with a small infusion of color. The following Instagram accounts are swoon worthy, and feature this decorating technique well.

Note that each of these accounts seem to highlight specific colors or color combinations, which are most likely the owners favorites.

 

@happyhomeonhighbridge

Jennifer’s home is lovely and simple, yet is brought up a notch in drama by the combination of teal and coral that she tends towards. She has an amazing teal ship-lap wall in her dining room you need to check out!

 

@jogalbraithathome

It is apparent that Jo has a love for nature. The greens of her house plants serve as one of the main colors that she likes to ‘pop’ with. A complimentary Navy blue completes the palette. Her home seems casual and comfortable – as if anyone scrolling through could just hang out and chat.

 

@anettetalstad

Anette really loves color. Her amazing home features a variety of bright and pastel colors. The muted tones throughout are balanced with an even amount of sleek white. The tagline for her Instagram page is ‘happy home with a view’ – and yeah, she has a view all right. Go check it out!

 

These accounts are all gorgeous, right? I hope you have been inspired not only by today’s interiors, but those featured in the previous posts in this series also. After seeing examples of them all, which category would you say you fall into?

AROUND HERE: AUGUST 2018

Around here we have been…

 

HEALING. {K} had her follow up appointment to see how her hand is healing. The doctor was very happy with how things looked, but decided that it could use one more month in a cast. She was a bit bummed at the news, but we trust the doctor’s recommendation. If she were to fall on her wrist or thumb before it was completely healed, it could mean more surgery.

She chose a purple cast this time – for the Vikings.

 

MAKING memories with family. All three boys, Craig, and both grandpas were able to attend a pre-season Vikings game in Minneapolis. For both {I} and {L}, it was their first time at an NFL game. Sadly, the Vikings lost to the Jaguars and didn’t seem to play their best.

That didn’t seem to matter to the boys. They had fun all the same and came home with huge smiles on their faces.

 

ENJOYING the last days of summer. It really is hard to believe that summer is nearly over. It is going into the record books as one of the most enjoyable breaks we have ever had as a family. I was trying to figure out the reason it has been so great, and have come to the conclusion that it is likely because we have had no major life events this year. No moving to a new house, no adoptions, no adding of new family members. Just us and the gorgeous weather.

We have been spending the last couple of weeks at the Fireman Cabins here in our town. A stay there is a perk of the Fire Department. Craig had signed up for our stay before his retirement, so this – our 11th year – will be our last official stay.

We have always loved our time at the cabins. There is something so peaceful and relaxing about the setting.

 



 

PREPARING for the start of school. This school year, six of our seven family members will be spending time at school. Angela accepted a position as a part time pre-Kindergarten classroom aide. It just so happens that miss {M} will be in her class, something they are both pretty excited about. Angela has been doing training with her colleagues in preparation.

She has also been sorting through school supplies and divvying them up among the kids. It’s amazing how many pencils we have! Back to school open house was yesterday, when the kids were able to meet their teachers, find their lockers, and see where they will sit in their classrooms. They are probably most excited to spend more time with their friends, and not so much looking forward to the extra work load that is sure to come.

 

{K} worked very hard this summer to get through the list of sight words her teacher had given her. The goal was that if she was able to learn them all, she would be able to get her very own library card. She did it, and was all smiles!

 

The kids are also starting their school related activities. {D} is signed up for football again this year. He is excited to have Craig as one of his coaches! They look forward to a fun season of learning together.

 

It has been one full year since the ‘Around Here’ feature began on the blog – take a look back at August 2017’s happenings. There are a lot of similarities this year!

 

This is just a glimpse at what our family has been up to. If you’d like a closer look, be sure to check out our weekly ‘mini vlogs’ on our YouTube channel ARROW HILL FAMILY. Be well everyone!

 

SATURDAY SKETCHBOOK: EVOLUTION OF OUR DESIGN

It’s interesting, now that I have been blogging for over a year, to look back and see some of the things that I have written – particularly as it relates to our house design process.

I am actually really thankful that I started documenting the process when I did. At the time, I had no idea that our floor plans would change as dramatically as they have.  I believe it might be encouraging to others reading this blog, who might be considering the design of their future dream home – to see that even someone who is seasoned in design can begin in one place – and end in another.

When we first started out, before our budget was completely realized, our house plans included special features such as a large vaulted living room, a small built in elevator/lift, and an endless pool in the basement.

 



 

You can see our original floor plans and my own personal thoughts about our dream home (as we believed it to be at that time) by linking to the following blog posts:

Main Level (original plan)

Upper Level (original plan)

Lower Level (original plan)

Through time, as we began to understand the true costs of what it would take to make these dreams a reality, the restrictions became more clear – and the designs began the process of fine tuning. Essentially, we had to determine which features of the design were most important to us, and which we could live without.

I wrote about how we made the decision to eliminate the large living room, and opted for a combined kitchen & dining space – to save on square footage – in this post.

And later, I documented in this post the fact that we would need to simplify even more – reducing the amount of windows, specifically in the living room, and also rotating the garage so that there would be a shorter driveway.

 

These changes didn’t come easily. I’ll admit it was hard for us to see some of the features we were most excited about slip away. But here’s the thing…

 

It’s still our dream house

 

With each change, the concept of the design was maintained, yet simplified. You could say that, essentially, we ‘cut the fat’.

In fact, as each modification has occurred, Craig and I have both looked back and realized that we prefer the more simple idea over it’s more complicated counterpart.

 



 

The fine tuning hasn’t been all elimination either. We have also been able to justify fun surprises, such as the rec room/ home gym in the lower level, and the nicely laid out upstairs bathroom with a large walk in shower. Both features that we know our family will greatly enjoy!

The newer floor plans, and hopefully plans that are VERY close to what will actually be built, are as follows:

 

Main Level (refined design)

 

 

Upper Level (refined design)

 

 

Lower Level (refined design)

 

The exterior has changed quite a bit too – in response to the interior changes.

This is how the exterior design looked last summer, before we began fine tuning.

 

And this is how it looks now. The most notable changes include the elimination of the living room ‘wing’, the reduction to one gable over the entry door, the change in orientation of the garage, the switch from a metal roof material to asphalt, and the elimination of the transom windows. The refined exterior is more simple and balanced, I think. I especially like that the entry door is centered on the gable and framed by the columns. Also, please note that the large planter box is still there. 😉

 

I will be taking some time this weekend or early next week to update the slideshow images on the website itself, so that it can reflect these changes.

Hopefully this post, and the overall blog – which will eventually capture our cottage from design, through building, and into interior decorating – will be a useful reference for people who are considering a new build of their own. It isn’t necessary to have it all perfect on paper starting out. The design will evolve and allow you to love it more along the way!

 

9 CREATIVE WAYS TO DECORATE WITH BOOKS

There is something so simple, so beautiful about a book. And although the digital age has seen a shift from the printed word to digital media, it doesn’t mean that books have gone out of style completely.

In fact, there are some really unique ways that people have found to keep the love of books alive – through home decor! Check out these nine creative ways to decorate with books.

 

SLEEP NEAR THE STORIES

image via Juvenile Hall Design

This headboard is so creative, and beautiful!

Forget sleeping under the stars… sleep under the stories instead!

 

 

FRAME YOUR FAVORITES

image via Danielle Sigwalt Interiors

Remove the dust jackets from your family favorites. Have them framed, then displayed as a unique gallery wall!

 

 

DRESS UP A MANTLE

image via littlevintagenest

Books make a great mantle accessory.

Grouped with other items, the pieces can together tell a story

 

 

STACK THEM AS SHELVES

image via Urban Outfitters

Talk about a floating shelf! This one has a cool factor like no other!

 

 

COLOR CODE CASES

image via sfgirl

This living room gets a happy dose of color from the rainbow collection of books – which are cleverly grouped by color.

 

 

NEUTRALIZE THE LOOK

image via Carrie Coleman Photography

Read how this image sparked a debate on apartment therapy.

Some people love this trend, and others hate it!

 

 

PAINT THE PAGES

image via Etsy

This beautiful and simple art piece can be purchased on Etsy – along with many other varieties. Get the look on your own by painting on an old book page.

 

 

HOLLOW THEM OUT

image via curbly

How creative is this re-purposing idea? Learn how to create a book planter of your own by following the link!

 

 

GIVE THEM NEW PURPOSE

image via knick of time

Something tells me that these homeowners feel the urge to read every time they hang up their coats

 

Which of these creative ideas is your favorite? Would you try any of them in your own home? Pin the image below for future reference.

THOUGHTS ON ENOUGH

I mentioned in a previous post that I have been reading the book ‘Enough‘ by Will Davis Jr. The author explores what it means to have more, or less than, enough – and how our perspective on this is shaped by our lives and what we deem as valuable. It is quite eye opening.

If someone asked me if my own family has more or less than enough, I can say with complete certainty that we have definitely been blessed with MORE than we need.

What though, is ENOUGH? Just right? No more than necessary?

 

 

That seems to be the more difficult question to answer. There seems to be two ends to the ‘enough’ spectrum:

One is the idea of stark/ extreme minimalism. The thought that you should clear out all of your belongings, save a few items of clothing and basic household necessities. An extreme minimalist’s home is clean and sleek – and can sometimes be seen by those who aren’t following the principles, as cold, stoic and depressing.

 

 

On the opposite end of the spectrum is something resembling the show Hoarders. The thought that everything is important and special – people who cling onto earthly goods so tightly, they find it difficult to throw even a small piece of trash away.

 

That isn’t to say that people have to fall in one camp or the other. In fact, There are minimalists who have very comfortable homes, and avid collectors who don’t become hoarders. I would venture to say that the majority of the American population falls somewhere between these poles. But where? And why?

I’ve been thinking about this quite a bit, and have come to my own personal conclusion that it has to do with the amount of rules and regulations we put on ourselves.

Both extremes have a tight set of rules. The minimalist has strict about what can be kept (very little), and the hoarder- rules about what can be thrown (basically, nothing).

 

The rest of us though?

It seems to me that most of us just go on in life, with little to no rules about ‘stuff’. Simply put, we just don’t think much about our accumulation, or disposal of it. And when we aren’t paying attention, items slowly begin to creep in.

We pick up the freebies, the items that are on clearance because they are ‘such a good deal’, and take hand me downs without hesitation. Suddenly our Tupperware drawers are overflowing and we have duplicates of things, because we had forgotten we already had one, and then brought home another.

 

Psychologists have long studied the relationship between humans and our possessions. It is becoming more apparent, especially in modern day America, that consumerism is a sort of mask that covers up other emotions – a way to fill a void that we may have.

 

In short, many of us have tied our sense of belonging to our BELONGINGS… without even realizing it.

 

So, perhaps it is up to each of us and our own families to determine the rules and parameters we want to follow regarding what to keep and what to pass up – to decide what is ‘enough’. Rules that can help us to be mindful of every item that enters and exits our home.

 

Rules though, that are not made just for the sake of making them – but are instead pointed directly to the WHY

 

I should get rid of this item –

WHY?

Because my family means MORE to me than these THINGS that are surrounding me.

 

WHY?

Because when I have fewer things, I appreciate those I do have even more.

 

 

I should keep this item –

WHY?

Because this item enriches the lives of my family.

 

WHY?
Because this item holds valuable, irreplaceable memories.

 

We’ve begun the process of determining our own family rules regarding ‘things’ recently.

Besides the project bucket list I have been tackling this summer, I have had a bit of a side gig going. De-cluttering. It’s an ongoing battle, especially in a house with five kids; But I really wanted to dig deeper into the ‘stuff’ and really think about the items we choose to keep around.

 



 

I have mentioned before that when we move into Arrow Hill Cottage, hopefully one year from now, we plan to only bring with us the items that are truly useful or bring us joy. In an effort to get a head start on making those decisions, we cleaned out one of the large hall closets in our rental house and deemed it the ‘sell room’. Items that do not have a place in our new home will be stored here, and sold at a large garage sale the end of next summer – before we make the big move.

I figured that we would have enough things to eventually fill this room, but had no idea that in just a couple of months – after only sorting through toys, clothes and a few household items, that it would be as packed as it already is! I will show you a picture of the room, but you need to promise not to gasp.

 

These are things that we don’t need – don’t wear, don’t read, don’t play with, don’t use. So. much. more than enough.

 

With every item that is added to this space, I am finding myself conflicted with emotions. On one hand, it feels freeing to cut out the extras – and on the other, I feel guilt that we have been living with this much excess for as long as we have.

 

This process of deciding what truly is ‘enough’ will be a journey for our family – but one we are excited to take.

 

What is your ‘enough’?

 

 

TRENDING IN HOME DESIGN & DECOR: ROSE GOLD ACCENTS

Brass, Silver, Bronze and Copper finishes have been commonplace in homes for many years. But there’s a new metallic in town that is taking center stage – Rose Gold.

rose gold mini planter. Rose gold decor for the home

No, it isn’t brand new. Rose Gold finishing has been around for quite some time, mainly in jewelry. However, in the recent years, it is having a moment trending in home decor and seems to be rising in popularity.

 

WHAT IT IS

Essentially, Rose gold is a mix of Copper and Gold. Pure gold has a natural yellow tone to it, and pure copper a reddish hue. When the two alloys are mixed together, coloring will appear more or less red – depending on the concentration of copper use. Rose gold has just a ‘touch’ of copper, and appears more on the pink side of the spectrum.

Where Blush / Millennial Pink seems to have been the ‘it’ color for the past three or so years, Rose Gold is getting in on the action – as it’s metallic cousin.

 



 

WHERE/HOW TO USE IT

The metallic is shiny enough to catch your eye and command importance, but pale enough to be almost considered a neutral – meaning that people are not afraid to mix it into a multitude of home decor applications. Rose gold accents are showing up all over the house – from furniture, to wall art and small appliances!

 

Office

Rose gold desk accessories. Home office with rose gold accents

Check out how the blog fox & gypsy were able to DIY this amazing rose gold + marble desk for a fraction of the store price!

 

Kitchen

Kitchen with rose gold accents. Rose gold home decor ideas and inspiration

The kitchen styled by @all.things.homely is all glammed up! Check out the rest of her home via Instagram. I love how she ties little bits of rose gold into just about every room in her house (including the bathroom)!

 

Accents

Rose gold leaf map. Decorative accents using rose gold

Art for the home has also stepped into the rose gold trend. This gorgeous world map print , available on Etsy, really makes a statement!

 

 

Hardware

Rose gold cabinet pulls

image via Styled on State

From cabinet pulls to the kitchen faucet – The detail that is added with the rose gold coloring is like jewelry to what could otherwise be considered a plain or utilitarian piece.

 

WHERE TO BUY

Rose gold accents and home decor items are popping up more frequently in both brick and mortar stores such as Target and Pier 1, as well as online. I found this collection of beauties on Amazon! *By clicking on the numbers below you will access affiliate linksAs an Amazon associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. See my full disclosure here *

 

lamp |pillow | hanging lights

tea kettle | art print | planter

clock | table | hour glass

votive | tissue box | mesh bowl

 



 

MY THOUGHTS ON THIS HOME DESIGN TREND

I have to say that although I am intrigued by this additional metallic finish choice, I do feel that the rose gold trend is one that may not stand the test of time. To me, it just does not seem as classic as other finishes such as oil rubbed bronze and silver.

I could see myself adding a few touches of rose gold here and there to my home decor – a pillow, a picture frame, maybe a lamp. I personally have no intention of changing over more permanent aspects such as the kitchen faucet or the door hardware; But, if you love the look – I say go for it!