SCHOOL READINESS BASICS

When {K} was first home a month and a half ago, I looked into getting her in a ESL (English as a second language) summer program.  In our town however, the programs available were either for adults or were day long in a summer school type setting.  Because we are still knee deep in cocooning, we knew that full on summer school wasn’t going to work for us.

While talking with the coordinator, I found out that if {K} learned the basics such as number and letter recognition, counting, colors and shapes she would be in a good position to start Kindergarten come September.  Though not sure how it would all play out, I decided to take on the mommy/teacher role and since the end of April I have been going through some preschool basics with both girls.  I have found that it has been highly beneficial for both of them – in fact, training them together has provided us all with some good bonding time.  They have already come so far!  We have made it through numbers 0-10 and letters A-O, and also have a great start on colors and shapes.  I am thinking that we may even be able to sneak some basic sight words into the mix come the end of the summer.

Though teaching is definitely not in my comfort zone and is not my gift, I have surprisingly enjoyed being there for the girls to help them get a great start on school!

 

ABOUT ARROW HILL

My dream of designing and building a home for my future family goes back as long as I can remember. As a young girl I would approach my two sisters as ‘clients’ and ask them questions such as “How many bedrooms would you like?” and  “Are you thinking a hot tub would be nice in your bathroom?” With their criteria in mind, I would then use my favorite 1980’s toy – pipeworks – to build them a house/fort.

Near the beginning of architecture school I was taught that one of the most important aspects of a building design is choosing the site it will sit upon.  To achieve a harmonious design, the site and building must evolve in unison.  Sadly, site selection is greatly overlooked in today’s home building market.  It is not uncommon to see neighborhoods of ‘cookie cutter’ houses – identical buildings lining the streets, with each lot being modified to accommodate the building and not the other way around.

Craig and I were married after my third year of architecture school, and I have to admit that I daydreamed much more about future house ideas than I did about that perfect wedding. Being college students though, we were in no way ready to choose a site.  We weren’t even sure what city our future jobs would land us in.  We needed to be patient.  Eventually we graduated and purchased a small 1900’s farmhouse about 30 miles from Craig’s home town – where we both had secured employment.   We lived there for only one year before realizing that the commute was not for us.  We transitioned to a historic neighborhood in our city of employment, where we purchased our 1904 Foursquare.  It was there we became parents and began growing our family.  After our second son was born our thoughts once again turned toward site selection.

In our minds eye, our perfect site included plenty of mature trees – woods that our boys could play in.  We also knew that we did not want to build a large home and though the site didn’t have to be very large, acreage would be a bonus if we could afford it.  We scoured online listings and drove around to the prospects, creating a list of pros and cons for each.  One Fall day as we were driving, we stumbled upon a nearly hidden property.  From the street it didn’t look like much, but we decided to park and check it out anyway.  I will never forget the emotions of the moment when we stepped out of our vehicle and onto the site.  There were mature oak and maple trees as far as we could see, their dried leaves slowly falling to the ground with a breeze from the crisp air.  The land sloped fairly steeply toward a large pond.  It felt like magic.  It felt like home.

The next few days were a whirlwind of working through logistics.  Could we really afford this?  How far of a drive is this property from the fire station (per department rules, we need to live within an 8 minute drive from the station).  What were the building restrictions for the site? What were the specifics on the lot size? (we later found out that the site was larger than we first expected,  4 1/2 acres total:  2 acres of pond and 2 1/2 of land)  As it turns out, all the details fell into place.  We purchased our little slice of the universe at the very end of 2009.

These are pictures from our first family outing on the property.  You can see from these photos how much the land slopes toward the pond.

This was just one of many exciting and happy memories we hope to make there. We are looking at this as our forever home, a lifetime property where Craig and I want to grow old together.  We have told our kids that we wish to keep the house and land in our family for generations to come; and thought that naming the property would be the perfect way to add some significance and permanence.  We all sat down and brainstormed name ideas, taking cues from the land, and eventually decided on ‘Arrow Hill.’

As you can see from this image, the site is a pie/ arrow shape, with the ‘point’ facing North; And, as I have already mentioned, it is mostly a hill.  If you look at the elevation markers you will see that it slopes from 1395.5 at the top/ road level down to 1370 at pond level.  That’s a 25 1/2 foot drop over approximately 104 feet, for a slope of 14 degrees (25 %)! Note: The contour lines that have dash marks indicate ‘wetlands’ /non buildable land.

One additional unique aspect of this lot is that it has many bordering neighbors:  6 across the pond, 1 to the south, and 7 to the west.  Amazingly, it still feels remarkably secluded thanks in part to the woods and the topography.

We are so happy to have found our perfect site and can’t wait to build our little cottage on it!

 

 

 

 

 

ONE GIANT LEAP INTO OUR FUTURE

It has been an exciting day for our family! Not only is it our 15th wedding anniversary, today also marks two years since M joined our family.  As if those two milestones weren’t reason enough to celebrate, we upped the ante in another major way.

We paid off our land loan!!!

Yes, that sentence absolutely requires three exclamation points!  We have been working diligently for nearly 9 years to pay down the loan balance, sending every leftover cent from the budget towards debt reduction.  Over the years, every time we visited the property we would talk to the kids about what percentage of the land we had paid for – and longed for the day when we could look at it and say ‘We own 100% of this!’  Today we did just that!

The kids are standing in the approximate location where Arrow Hill Cottage will be built.

We made a promise to ourselves when we took out the loan that we would not build a house on the land until we were in a better financial position.  We set up a financial plan, which included becoming debt free.  We are now one step closer to that freedom and it feels amazing!

A description of the property is coming up next!

 

WHAT I KNOW AND LOVE

If you are wondering what I am planning to write about, this blog post is for you!

But first, a few disclaimers to set the stage:

  • I am NOT a professional writer.  There are likely to be punctuation and spelling errors from time to time.  That being said, I am the granddaughter of an English teacher and I do try my best to keep things as easy to read as possible.  Modern technology has also provided me with spell check, which I will be utilizing.
  • We are a Christian family, and I may at times quote the Bible or make statements of faith.  Though I’m not planning to write anything majorly controversial, I do acknowledge that the thoughts I put on these pages are my own and may not line up with your personal beliefs.  Please be respectful when making comments, it is never my intention to start a major debate.
  • The internet can be a scary place.  For that reason, I have chosen to use only the first initial of each of our children’s names as their ‘identifier’ for the blog.  If you know our family in real life, please refrain from commenting with their actual names.
  • I will be adding a lot of original photos and sketches to this website. If you feel inspired by any of the content – please feel free to use the Pinterest button provided at the bottom of each post to pin it to your own board or contact me and ask permission for it’s use.

OK, whew!  Feels good to get that out of the way!  Now on to the fun stuff!

If you were to google ‘what should I write about in my blog’ – that smarty pants search engine would advise you to write about what you KNOW and what you LOVE.

That really helps to narrow down the field.  I have to say that most, if not all, of my life I have dreamed of two things – being a mom, and designing houses.  Happily, both of those dreams have come true for me.  I graduated with an architecture degree in 2004 and promptly began working full time for an architectural firm.  There were a mix of projects that I was given some free reign on; but my favorites by far were the houses.  I just love the personal nature that each house design takes on – crafted to meet the needs of it’s occupants on such an intimate level.  At the end of 2006 when our first son was born, I jumped head first into my new motherhood role and began staying home with him.  Thankfully I was able to continue doing some house design work part time from home – and have continued to do so ever since – while adding four additional children to the family (two boys and two girls).  I am so appreciative that the architecture firms I work for have allowed me the freedom and flexibility to work from home and be there for my kiddos whenever they need me.

And so here I am, 15 years a wife with about 13 years of designing under my belt – and just over 10 being a mom.  Craig and I joke that we have spent the last 15 years growing our family and now we can focus on growing AS a family.  That prospect excites us both greatly.

Now that we have our completed family, we are ready to move onto the next chapter – to design and build a house of our own.  This has been on our minds for years (more on that on the next blog post) and the time has finally come! I KNOW my family, I LOVE my family.  I KNOW how to design houses, I LOVE to design houses (and will LOVE to design a house for my FAMILY most of all!).  So there you have it…

 

 

This blog (and connected website) will primarily follow the designing and eventually building of our future cottage/house; But no house design could be properly executed without knowing about the family that will live there – so I will share bits of our family life also.  I hope you are excited to join us on this journey!